爱的经典名言

忘了从哪里看到一些很有意义的经典名言。。。但是很诗情画意的句子，佷感触。。

不要因为寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办

不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，洗牌是要付出巨大代价的。

和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。

离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趁向人性化，不在封建思想而禁捆自己，坏的一点是对与婚姻的轻率，没想好结什么婚？

只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要时去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书，这样你会发现生活更加美好。

经常听说男人味女人味，你知道男人味是什么味道，女人味又是一种什么味道吗？男人味就是豁达勇敢，女人味就是体贴温柔。

魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引人，端庄幽雅的女人有人才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。

初恋是让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他/她很漂亮或很帅，也不是因为得不到就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心理异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方，而以后的爱情就没有这么纯洁无暇了。纯真是人世间最可贵的东西，我们可求的就是它。

初恋的人大多不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多，成功的少。

天长地久有没有？当然有，为什么大多数人不相信有？因为他们没有找到人生旅途中最适合自己的那一个，也就是在冥冥中注定的那一个。为什么找不到？茫茫人 海，人生如露。要找到那个最适合自己的谈何容易，或许你到了40岁时才找到上天注定的那一个，可是你能等到40岁吗？在20多岁时找不到，却不得不结婚， 到三四十岁找到却不得不放弃。这就是人生的悲哀。

和聪明的人恋爱很快乐，因为他们很幽默，会说话，但也时时存着危机，因为这样的人容易变心，和老实的人恋爱会很放心，但生活却也非常乏味。

如果真爱一个人，就会心甘情愿为他改变，如果一个人在你面前我行我素，置你不喜欢的行为而不顾，那么他就是不爱你。所以你不够关心他或者他不够关心你，那 么你就不爱他或他不爱你，而不要以为自己本来就很粗心。或相信他是一个粗心的人。遇到自己的真爱，懦夫也会变勇敢，同理，粗心鬼也会边细心。

彼此都有意而不说出来是爱情的最高境界，因为这个时候两人都在尽情享受眉眼，尽情的享受目光相对时的火热心理，尽情享受手指相碰时的惊心动魄。一旦说出来，味道会淡许多，因为两个人同意以后，所有的行为都已被许可，已有心理准备的了。到最后慢慢变的麻木了。

有外遇并非坏男人的专利，好男人一样有，所以当你遇到这样的男人时，不要一棍子打死，可以试着给一次机会，能改还可以在一起。几十年的感情不容易，对于男人偶尔出轨，有时候不必看的太重。

学会理解欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。

成熟的人不问过去，聪明的人不问现在，豁达的人不问未来。


//我不会爱，也不懂得爱，所以我手持着单身套餐。。。我无意让任何人爱上我，所以不要对我有感情，因为爱上我只会让你会后悔。。。我不想你后悔。。。因为你未必能包容我所有一切。。我更不愿意看见任何伤害。。对不起。。紫雁比较适合单身套餐，就来一份吧～//

Gift

21st and 22nd of April was Xin Yao and King Kong 21st Bday...
so we had bought them a gift specially chosen and imported from Japan...haha...
so this is the gift we gave them...hope will b very meaningful mean for them too..haha
























This 7 cats boat is specially for xinyao since he got almost everything so we hope he will earn more money in future with our wishes for him haha...as for the big size cup mee actually is fake the haha..but looks real...its actually a paper roll container...XD hope u guys like the gift la..^^

so as today i was went out wif my fren,we went to jusco, as he say he wan looks for perfume...so i din think much and follow him...who knows he look for the perfume and bought 1 perfume cost rm206 as a gift for me...wow..its shock man...tat was a branded perfume "Hugo Boss"..its expensive...it was the most expensive gift i ever had b4 ...
its don hav reason for me to receive the gift coz its really cost a lot...RM 206 is not a small price...
i was rejecting but he say earlier gift for my 21st bday...so ..speechless...anyway..i reli thanks him for this special gift...although felt a bit guity and sorry to received it..haiz...beside thanks i dono wat could i say anymore...this is the perfume he gave , its quite nice to smell...fruity taste..^^

Memorable outing~~miss

on saturday tat day, me, li cheang and phobe was crazy off wif the day...
after our OOP class, Teh eng soon fetch us go for lunch...actually we want go for McD de,...
but hor that uncle got meeting so end up we juz had our lunch at MMU food corner ther..
anyhow, we order for the fried rice..quite nice and of cz cheap...
haha cost ard 2.70 but big portion...
then on the spot, i say got PC fair..wan go o not?haha...
3 of us juz go PC fair straight like tat...eng soon drop us at EP cz we waiting bus to go MP...XD
we nearly miss out the bus coz i was go clinic wanted to buy med but it closed...
we able take the bus coz i run hopefully can catch the bus when i saw the bus was heading to leave...=.="

we reach at MP ard 3 sth...damn hot de weather....we all were sweating..
nice aircon inside MP haha..we go shopping to get ourself fresh b4 we goin to sweat again in the PC fair...
phoebe bought a shoes and tats reli cute for her...as for me...facing the reality...spectacles...
i had do my spectacles T_T...
don reli like but wat to do...gonna blind soon if keep dun wear...haiz...sien liao...
i choose an ahma style spec..haha..goin to be vr vr funny when i wear it@_@..
however,its cheap..so dun care...XD
after tat we go to PC fair...damn a lot ppl...
summore got ppl pushinga baby car and walk inside...walou eh..auntie..inside damn hot n u push ur baby in a very pek road kok...swt lo~~
while walking inside, my hp rang and its from a person that i never expect..
i answer the call n ask who is him...coz the hp num shown was in my contact list..
he say i miss u so much n u forget who is me...i was keep thinking who is the guy..will it be alex?
cz the sound is familiar..then i ask isit him?he ques me back who is alex...
wow,..fire nearly burn...who r u then?then he say my sir name is lee..then i ask lee what?
alex lee...swt la~~play me a fool...
but actually kinda happy hear from him...coz he is some1 special meant for me...
no doubt tat i oso miss him very much...i don remeber the last time we contact is when...
but the happiness is out of my expected...he is comin to KL on 7th may..
hopefully if i'm free then we can meet..:P
have a long time din see him dy...i'm oways remember the memories that we have together...
also, all of us was not stopping finding a ppl, and tat is ur best fren...we've found him dy...thanks god...
knwing ur r very fine now, i oso happy ...long time dy, ur sound still that amazing and attractive..
hope can hear u sing again ..XD
we talk kinda long in phone...sorry ya~ licheang n phoebe...keep talking til keep they waiting..paiseh....on the way ,yu hung call me say pass me the IC at nite,but we dono wat time we goin back..haha

after that , we leave the fair n we going for high tea...
know wat,...6pm..having high tea..XD
we have out high tea at Old town kopitiam..after the tea time,
we go to a Japanese shop that selling product direct import from japan...nice huh...
we'd oso choose a present for king kong and xinyao from the shop...hope they will like it..
kinda meaningful present though...haha..

ard 9pm, yuhung reach pahlawan meet us...we were looking for our dinner tat time...haha..
end up pur dinner is shilin tempura, crispy savoury =.='''
then we plan to go gogoKTV but sadly tat no room available, nid wait til 12 am...
so we decided not to wait and goin back find sam,jey ruey falix yumcha..
ard 1 stg we juz back home...
1st time we come out at 9am and reach home ard 1++ am..
its a crazy day coz we didnt plan the outing at all...its juz very sudden..XD
but it's very memorable and happy outing...3 gals shopping day..haha..
so that was the day~ :)

What a day~~

forgotten how long i din go for computer virus intrusion detection class...
not i skip the class although...swt...
today suppose have tutorial but the "good lecture" cancelled again...nice huh...
the lecturer seems to be more lazy than me ...XD
he had cancelled many class which i don reli remember how many class had he cancelled...
for this subject, dono hav how many chapters...but til now we only have ard 7 lecture...
others i think shoudl be study "google search" dy...
the tutorial he gave are totally different with the lecture notes...
mostly out of the notes...so we nid to google our own...OMG~
not the 1st time he thought me...last time he thought me oso wasting time only..
now more worst...80++ students 40 ++ groups doin same topic assignment...
all present the same thing, he wasting 2 weeks time to do the presentation..
we go class sit ther 2 hours doing nth sign attendance then go...wat the !!!
whole day only tat class n then go sign for 15 min then can leave...reli feel wan bomb him lo...
midterm oso test google search...now come to 2nd assignment...
no title, no mention wat to do, due date is when oso din mention clearly...@_@
all of us was in blur...
excuse me sir! we're not god la...pls la...upload some details at least...
we dont even know wan how to start now...
I have NO idea at all! Pek chek lo facing dis kind of lecture...=_=|||
any1 pls tell me HOW TO START !!! how to do ah????!!!
i feel wan simply hantam for him liao...si beh sien !!! celaka~!

at last...i feel so lazy ady...no guide to do wat...moody~~
feeling my body had become more n more tired than i can afford...
pressure...tension...r invisible to me...
if one day u see i cant smile to u anymore...means i'm reli in trouble dy...
so better stay away from me b4 get bomb by me ~ XD wakaka....

Live for future

Life is miracle, meaningful...
provided how u live it bright...
there's many thing that cant explain easily only with words...
some action might representing some meaning..
future can be very bright only when u know how to control ur future..
although,there's a lots thg are out of our control...

so, juz live with dreams...
we should thanks god whenever we still alive today...

紫雁翱翔

紫雁翱翔自由～
放空自己，舞动奇迹～～
对于过去一切是个错误，对于未来的选择是个梦想。。。
我不想后悔，也不愿后悔。。。
舞者的生命在于带给表演欢乐，舞动最曼妙的一刻。。。
那是我的梦，既很靠近却又很遥远。。。
恋曲成了生命的一部分，但我想舞动最完美的恋曲。。可能吗？未知数。。。
只想说，生命里有无数个的未知数，下一秒我会做什么我也不知道。。。
我压力无穷。。。我思绪烦乱。。。但我只想给人欢乐。。。给大家最好的回忆。。
我的领导曾经坠落。。只因为忍让。。。但我的忍让证明了我的最错选择。。。
我努力挽救，所以我会无怨无悔的为团付出。。但别逼我入绝境。。。
否则我会发疯的。。。
也谢谢一直在我背后支持我的人。。。

×紫雁会想休息了～想继续紫雁的舞蹈世界～×
一切会在这年画上我的休止符。。。证明我真的努力过也尽了我最大的责任。。

What is your True Fear? Your Result: Losing Someone   You love affection and the people in your life more than anything. Your greatest fear is that one day someone you care about won't be there anymore. You are a very friendly and inviting person, who draws in a lot of friendships with your kind, considerate, and loyal nature. However, deep down you are slightly insecure and unsure of yourself. You couldn't deal with it if you didn't have one of your loved ones in your life anymore. You don't have too much to worry about though, because with a friend like you, no one will want to lose you either!
Disappointment
Being Alone
Looked down on
Where Your life is Going
Commitment
Death
What is your True Fear? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz

What's Your Best Quality? Your Result: Out-Going   Your best quality is out-going! People like you because you are fun to be around and no one ever knows what you will do next. Also you are not afraid to say or do whatever you want.
Personality
Loving
Ambitious
Intelligence
Sense of Humor
What's Your Best Quality? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz

Which Positive Quality Are You? Your Result: Friendship   You are Friendship. Friends are those who can be counted upon in times of need. Friends are those who share in your joys and your sorrows. Friendship unites us with others beyond family and brings happiness and comfort to our lives. "Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies."
Charity
Love
Peace
Faith
Courage
Which Positive Quality Are You? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz

so a nite that i cant slp coz sleep too much in the evening...
so then i try sth very interesting..quizzes on my personality which i found the quizzes from sim's page..haha...so lets check out..somehow its quite true but somehows not really..its depends..

爱恋抉择

果断的抉择，未必是个悲得恋曲，只是为自己铺更好的未来。。。
一个恋曲如果是悲的，那长久以来，只会让自己痛苦。。
虽然容忍让步是彼此迁就，但最伤的会是谁？？
想想我们所为对方的付出，是不是值得，还是只是单方面的付出罢了？

美好恋曲可以为下一个恋曲去得更美好的爱恋，
不好的恋曲极为为下个恋曲留下个不好的阴影。。。

女人心容易被伤害，脆弱男人也是如此。。
人的心灵永远是自己最脆弱的一面，
不要伤害了那弱小心灵，给自己也给对方一个机会。。。

在感情路上，我被伤害过，但也被疼爱过。。。
对我而言，我会盲目的被爱情冲昏头，
但背叛我的人，我会比任何人更快斩断这段情。。
我伤我悲过，为何我会这么傻??
最伤的并不是失去，而是亲眼目睹背叛的过程。。
但这让我学会了更加忍耐，更加勇敢，更加坚强。。。
我不哭，我学会了笑。。。因为我是坚强不毅的紫雁～
飞舞过永恒的天空，舞者的生命源于带给别人美好的舞曲表演～
舞动奇迹就能舞出最美丽的恋曲～～

Penang Trip Memories

Today juz back from cyberjaya...
we went to cyberjaya on last saturday to meet our gang to have a trip to penang on sunday.
no doubt tat the trip is reli funny and crazy also happiest moment for me..
i wish tat trip..

we depart from cyberjaya early in the morning 6 am and reach by penang ard 11 am stg..
we going 3 cars together,14 ppl..my foundation gang groups together...so nice^^
but kolian tat sim don have sound..become a hyperactive soundless "goose" XD..
its my 1st experience goin out wif such big group..
the first thg we do of coz finding for lunch...
unfortunately, yuhung's and king kong's car " missing " on the way coz of the traffic light then cant catch up wif us, so then xy went find them...lol...
at first was to find our hotel but xy forgot the way to hotel then turn out to find lunch since every1 is like hungry ghost dy wakaka...

after lunch , we continue find our way to hotel...so thanks god, we found the hotel at last...the hotel named vistana hotel..its a nice hotel...
we booked a suite with 3 rooms...of coz 3 of us gal having 1 room..haha..then another 2 room was fixed wif 10 guys..pity guys...haha...
every1 having rest b4 goin out to shop...after tat su reach n bring us to gurney plaza...
we took a lot funny photo by the seaside opposite the gurney...then we having our dinner at the food street ...damn lot of food from beginning til the end until dono how to choose...swt...
we looking for place since we're big group of ppl so end up we nid combined up to 4 or 5 tables juz can fix in all ppl...juz realize our guys gang reli hungry coz they reli eat a lot...OMG~~

our one day almost eat n play ard...then back to hotel, guys continue wif their PS games n we go sampat at yuhung's room...XD..kinda miss the trips now...
the times spent wif big group of frens reli pass very fast ...somehow, i was think how good if i cant oways have chance such as this...but every1 was quite bz wif studies stuff...its kinda hard to find out suitable time to gather...

i will oways miss u guys, thanks all for the trip, it will oways a sweet memory for me in my life...
i having my happiest time wif u guys n i appreciate it very very much^^

夜的美

又是一个感觉很美好的一晚。。
感觉好像一次比一次的夜晚夜归。。但那感觉是蛮棒的，感觉有点疯狂。。。
10点晚上，朋友约了一起去amigo喝茶， 那是一间蛮有格调但不豪华的日本料理点，
但也有售卖其他食物，可谓中西日合并料理。。在那里坐了大概整2个小时有吧～
过后就去Jetty 走走，在等另一班朋友接我时，我们进gogo KTV,我还被cue了几首歌。。
等着朋友来救命的时间还真长～～哈哈...
大概1：30 左右，朋友终于到了，成功把我救走了～哈哈哈。。好像有点坏。。。
没法咯～～

随着他们又到了另一个喝茶地点，不懂那地点的名字，不过靠近capitol的意见mamak。。
在哪里看见一个蛮久没见到的朋友。。。
又是一个疯狂的夜晚。。。看着他们聊无聊的话题但又很白目到好笑。。
或许是男生的个性是如此吧。。哈哈。。我在一旁看着他们说笑话，
我本身并不是很会说笑，所以都看他们说笑。。。
看着夜晚的天空，心情也不知不觉的很愉快。。
或许是因为太久没有看夜景的关系吧，突然感觉也很美。。
若不是老天不作美，我想我会比较想看海，但可惜下着毛毛雨。。。
没办法咯～希望下次会有机会。。。
我在那里带到约凌晨4：30 才回家。。。
回到梳洗后倒在床上直接跟周公约会。。。因为实在太累了。。
那天早上9点上课一直没睡待到凌晨5点。。。真佩服。。。很够立下～疯狂的我～～
就这样的一个夜晚过了。。。很美好的一晚～：）
我喜欢夜景，喜欢夜的美，夜的宁静让我心情平复不少。。。

Pretty nite

It's quite a long time i didnt have outing late at nite.
but, 2 days b4 i went out lim teh wif my fren til 4 am stg..
kinda crazy yeah~haha..but it's a happy nite..
i get know wif a new group of frens and they are reli funny,crazy ~ "KUSO"..
they all are working dy but stil act like a kid..hehe..

yesterday nite, i went to machap wif mek to a fren's house for BBQ nite..
ard 10 pm sth, he come fetch me go together...
reli OMG, we pass through a road tat can be said is totally dark and got some horro feel..
ther's no light at all along the road...
luckily he change road when fetch me back coz tat road is reli too dark~

we reach ther ard 10:30pm, they juz set up the fire ...
wat's make me laugh whole nite is their conversation...
they reli shoot each other very very "gau lat"..
play til crazy...snap shot those funny picture...
seeing their act reli don think they are working ppl dy...
cant even match wif their age..

one of their fren-Ah Lai went home get the wain coz wah zai didnt buy beer...
then we all test the wain...whole bottle juz finish at that nite..
i oso have some, the taste is quite nice...although not my 1st time drinking wain..
but compare with the one my uncle give me last time,
this taste better...
but end up ~ i slp like a pig next day and not even have energy go for my OOP class..XD

by the time i reach home ady 4:30 am dy...2 nite continuosly out til 4 am sth...
it's reli a happy nite for me, thanks mek fro bringing me out..hehe..
coz all of them are schoolmates and i'm the only alien there ^^
a pretty nite that would be for me in my memories...
hopefully still have another chance to crazy wif them..haha^^

无题

曾经有人说过，男人靠得住，母猪爬上树。。。当然是针对不同类型的男人而言。。
并非一杆子打翻一舟人。只能说：个人说做的，往往只有自己知道。。
是亏是益？也是自己懂。
永远记住，凡是看在天地里，做善事自得善报，作恶唯得食恶果。。
做过什么，自己知道就好，报应并非是个虚名哦^^
我做的每一件事都坦荡荡，我也问心无愧。。
无论你怎么去污蔑都好，我都是带着我的名字去做人，好过你缩头乌龟。。
少来惹我～我不是3岁小孩子～真是你个大烂人！死骗子！